We actually have to give women credit for that level of courage to trust over and over again even after being screwed over or watching their friend get screwed over when their nudes were leaked by an ex.
In our Schools, sex, was a red line. The epitome of indiscipline. “Coupling” was an indefinite suspension case. We grew up in religious families and sex, especially premarital sex was not only frowned upon, it was vilified as some evil, disgusting act.